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    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: College-Aged Children

    March 18, 2024

    Has your child entered the college years (ages 18 to 22)? Congratulations! This is an exciting time, but it can also bring a whole new set of challenges for parents. Here are a few of the issues that parents commonly face during this stage:   Long distance – If your child is going away to […]

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    Exploring Parenting Challenges by Age: College-Aged Children

    Has your child entered the college years (ages 18 to 22)? Congratulations! This is an exciting time, but it can also bring a whole new set of challenges for parents. Here are a few of the issues that parents commonly face during this stage:

     

    • Long distance – If your child is going away to college, you might find yourself missing them and worrying about them, especially if you haven’t spent a significant amount of time apart from them in the past. Try to keep yourself busy with hobbies and friends, and before you know it, your sadness will turn into pride and excitement.
    • College freedom vs. house rules – After your child has been at school all year, you’re probably thrilled to have them return home for the summer, but you might encounter some issues when they move back in. When they were on campus, they had much more freedom than they ever did growing up, so it might be hard for them to readjust. You can still communicate your expectations as far as chores, usage of the family car, and what to do if they’re planning to be home late, but try to be flexible and remember that they’re adults.
    • Academic stress – It’s not uncommon for kids who excelled throughout grade school to become overwhelmed once they enter college. College classes tend to be more difficult than high school courses, and students are also more tempted to go to parties and hang out with friends without their parents’ supervision. Don’t feel like you need to fix every problem—after all, your child needs to learn to figure out solutions on their own—but be sure to teach them time management and self-care practices, and watch out for signs of anxiety and depression.

     

    Learn More About Effective Parenting

     

    Would you like to receive parenting tips from a professional who specializes in managing children’s behavior? Contact us today. We’ll be happy to schedule a therapy session so that we can begin to discuss the challenges that you’re facing with your college-aged children.

    Filed Under: college, Parenting

    Coping With Grief After Losing a Marriage, Engagement, or Dating Relationship

    March 15, 2024

    Have you recently gone through a divorce, a broken engagement, or a breakup? The loss of a romantic relationship can be especially difficult because we spend so much time with our significant others, so a separation can impact many aspects of our lives and leave us feeling like our world has been turned upside down. […]

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    Coping With Grief After Losing a Marriage, Engagement, or Dating Relationship

    Have you recently gone through a divorce, a broken engagement, or a breakup? The loss of a romantic relationship can be especially difficult because we spend so much time with our significant others, so a separation can impact many aspects of our lives and leave us feeling like our world has been turned upside down. Not only do we have to cope with missing them, but we also have to deal with the hassles of splitting up any shared property and possibly finding a new home. Plus, we must accept that the dreams we had of a future with that person are no longer a possibility.

     

    Fortunately, there are steps you can take to process your grief and move on from your relationship. For instance, you may want to try:

     

    • Spending time with family and friends
    • Talking to a therapist
    • Making time for self-care each day
    • Incorporating exercise into your daily routine
    • Starting a new hobby

     

    As difficult as it may seem, try to look at your breakup as an opportunity to rediscover yourself and the things that make you who you are. For example, if you’ve always loved baking but you didn’t get to bake as often as you wanted during your relationship, try purchasing a new cookbook or signing up for a local cake decorating class.

     

    Do You Need Help Healing From Loss?

     

    If you’re having a hard time coping with the loss of a marriage, engagement, or dating relationship, one of the best ways to process your grief is to speak to a therapist. Contact us today and we can tell you more about our practice, answer any questions you might have, and schedule a therapy session.

    Filed Under: loss, relationships

    Coping With Grief After Losing a Job

    March 13, 2024

    People often speak of grief in terms of losing a loved one, but did you know it can also result from the loss of a job? It’s true. When you lose a job—especially one that you enjoyed and planned to stay at well into the future—it can cause you to question your self-worth. Jobs provide […]

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    Coping With Grief After Losing a Job

    People often speak of grief in terms of losing a loved one, but did you know it can also result from the loss of a job? It’s true. When you lose a job—especially one that you enjoyed and planned to stay at well into the future—it can cause you to question your self-worth. Jobs provide routine and structure to our lives, and without one, you may end up feeling directionless. You might also feel lonely now that you no longer have regular interactions with your former colleagues. And this is all on top of the financial concerns that come with losing a job.

     

    Luckily, there’s good news—your grief won’t last forever, and there are steps you can take to shorten the time until it passes. You should:

     

    • Share your feelings – Speak to friends and family members about the emotions you’re experiencing, or schedule an appointment with a therapist who specializes in grief.
    • Stick to a routine – Just because you’re no longer going to work doesn’t mean that you can’t still have a routine. Set an alarm, get dressed, and find time to venture outside each day.
    • Start looking for new opportunities – This doesn’t just mean perusing job postings. Try joining online career groups and attending networking events. Not only will this increase your chances of finding a new position, but it may also lead to new friendships.

     

    Offering Assistance With Grief

     

    We specialize in healing from loss, and we’ve worked with many patients who were struggling to cope with the loss of a job. Contact us today to schedule a therapy session. We’ll be happy to answer your questions and tell you more about our practice and the services we offer.

    Filed Under: Grief, job

    What Is Complicated Grief?

    March 11, 2024

    It’s normal to experience grief after a loss, such as the death of a friend or family member. In most cases, these emotions gradually improve over time. But if you’re still living with the symptoms of grief months or years later, you may have what’s known as “complicated grief,” “prolonged grief,” “chronic grief,” or “persistent […]

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    What Is Complicated Grief?

    It’s normal to experience grief after a loss, such as the death of a friend or family member. In most cases, these emotions gradually improve over time. But if you’re still living with the symptoms of grief months or years later, you may have what’s known as “complicated grief,” “prolonged grief,” “chronic grief,” or “persistent complex bereavement disorder.”

     

    Many people with complicated grief report feeling “stuck” in life. They often find it difficult to get back into their normal routine, and they may have a hard time finding enjoyment in the activities they once loved. Although there’s no definitive length of time that must have passed for grief to be considered complicated, many professionals contemplate a diagnosis after six months.

     

    Who Experiences Complicated Grief?

     

    Complicated grief can affect anyone. With that said, certain circumstances can make this type of grief more likely to occur. For example, you may have a higher chance of experiencing complicated grief if:

     

    • You had a close relationship with the individual who passed away (or conversely, if you had a difficult relationship with that person).
    • Your loved one passed unexpectedly or in an especially traumatic way.
    • You don’t have a strong support system.
    • You’re experiencing stress in other areas of your life.
    • You’ve previously experienced depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or separation anxiety.
    • You experienced trauma during childhood (e.g., abuse or neglect).

     

    Schedule a Therapy Appointment

     

    If you’re experiencing complicated grief—or any other type of grief—you can rely on our experienced therapists to help you heal from your loss. Contact us today, and one of our compassionate team members can answer your questions and arrange a time for you to attend an initial therapy appointment.

     

     

    Filed Under: Grief

    Dating After Divorce: Tips for Moving On After Your Breakup

    March 8, 2024

    If you’ve gone through a divorce, you’re not alone. According to statistics published by Forbes, about half of first marriages end in divorce, and divorce rates are even higher in second and third marriages. It’s important to not rush back into dating after a divorce. Separating from your spouse can be extremely difficult, and you’ll […]

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    Dating After Divorce: Tips for Moving On After Your Breakup

    If you’ve gone through a divorce, you’re not alone. According to statistics published by Forbes, about half of first marriages end in divorce, and divorce rates are even higher in second and third marriages.

    It’s important to not rush back into dating after a divorce. Separating from your spouse can be extremely difficult, and you’ll need to take time to process your emotions, rediscover yourself, and think about what you want in your next relationship. Once you’re ready to enter the dating world again, remember the following tips:

     

    • Try dating apps. If it’s been a while since you got married, you may not have any experience using dating apps and websites, and you might be hesitant to embrace this new technology. But don’t discount it—these services could make it easier for you to meet someone new. Or, consider joining a class or attending a community event.
    • Be honest. While you don’t need to divulge every detail of what led to your divorce, don’t purposefully keep things from a potential partner. Let them know that you’re divorced and what you’re looking for in a new relationship. Trust is an essential component of any relationship, and you don’t want to build your next one based on lies.
    • Wait to introduce your children. If you and your ex-spouse share children, you may be excited to have them meet your new partner, but it’s important to not rush these introductions. Wait until you’ve gotten to know your new partner well and you’re sure that you want to be with them long-term.

     

    Need to Talk to Someone?

     

    Moving on after a divorce can be very difficult, and many people in this position find it beneficial to speak with a therapist. The experienced providers at our practice can help you navigate through any issues you’re currently experiencing and move into the next chapter of your life. Contact us today to request an appointment—we’ll be happy to schedule a session at a date and time that’s convenient for you.

    Filed Under: dating, divorce

    10 Relaxation Tips for Busy Professionals

    March 6, 2024

    Does your career often leave you feeling stressed? If so, you’re not alone. According to statistics published by the American Institute of Stress, 40% of workers reported that their job was very or extremely stressful, and 25% viewed their job as the No. 1 stressor in their life. And because stress can make it difficult […]

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    10 Relaxation Tips for Busy Professionals

    Does your career often leave you feeling stressed? If so, you’re not alone. According to statistics published by the American Institute of Stress, 40% of workers reported that their job was very or extremely stressful, and 25% viewed their job as the No. 1 stressor in their life. And because stress can make it difficult for you to focus, it can affect job performance, potentially leading to even more stress.

     

    Fortunately, there are steps you can take to manage your stress, relax, and enjoy a better quality of life:

     

    1. Eat a nutritious diet.
    2. Drink plenty of water.
    3. Get enough sleep.
    4. Exercise (you may even be able to do a few calming yoga poses in your office).
    5. Meditate.
    6. Use positive affirmations.
    7. Practice deep breathing.
    8. Spend time on self-care (this could involve going out to dinner with friends, visiting the spa, or even just taking a short walk outside).
    9. Take periodic breaks during the workday.
    10. Find a healthy work-life balance.

     

    Talk to a Therapist

     

    If you’re still feeling stressed, you may want to consider attending therapy. An experienced therapist can help you identify stress triggers and provide you with tips and tools for how to relax when you start feeling overwhelmed.

     

    Fortunately, busy professionals in this area can turn to our therapists for help with relaxation. We understand the toll that a strenuous career can take on your mental health, and once we’ve learned about your lifestyle and treatment goals, we’ll be able to supply you with advice that’s tailored to your specific needs. Contact us today to schedule your first therapy session.

    Filed Under: relaxation tips, stress

    Mindfulness and Anxiety: How to Find Peace in Chaos

    February 28, 2024

    With the stressors of everyday life, anxiety can often feel all-consuming. The demands of work, relationships, and the constant stream of information can overwhelm even the strongest among us. It is in these moments that the practice of mindfulness emerges as a path to cultivate inner peace amidst life’s chaos. Understanding How Mindfulness Can Help […]

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    Mindfulness and Anxiety: How to Find Peace in Chaos

    With the stressors of everyday life, anxiety can often feel all-consuming. The demands of work, relationships, and the constant stream of information can overwhelm even the strongest among us. It is in these moments that the practice of mindfulness emerges as a path to cultivate inner peace amidst life’s chaos.

    Understanding How Mindfulness Can Help

    Mindfulness is a powerful practice that is embraced by psychology and mental health professionals. At its core, mindfulness involves being fully present in the moment, and acknowledging thoughts and feelings without judgment. In the context of anxiety, mindfulness becomes a transformative tool, allowing individuals to observe their anxious thoughts without becoming entangled in them.

    Breaking the Cycle of Anxiety

    Anxiety often thrives on anticipation and worry about the future or dwelling on the past. Mindfulness interrupts this cycle by redirecting attention to the present moment. Through techniques like mindful breathing and body scans, individuals can anchor themselves in the ‘now,’ breaking free from the grip of anxious thoughts and fostering a sense of calm.

    Cultivating Inner Peace

    In a chaotic world, cultivating inner peace becomes an invaluable skill. Mindfulness encourages a non-reactive awareness that helps individuals respond to stressors with greater resilience. By fostering a compassionate understanding of oneself, mindfulness offers respite from the whirlwind of daily life.

    Embracing Mindfulness for Anxiety

    At Marsh Psychology Group, we recognize the profound impact of mindfulness on anxiety. Our therapists are experienced in guiding individuals toward incorporating mindfulness practices into their lives. If you seek to navigate the turbulent waters of anxiety with a grounded spirit, consider embracing mindfulness as a transformative ally. Cultivate inner peace, embrace the present, and forge a path to a calmer, more balanced life. Contact us to learn more.

    Filed Under: mindfulness

    How to Know You’re Dealing with a Narcissist

    February 26, 2024

    We all believe we know what narcissism looks like. After all, aren’t a majority of politicians and Hollywood A-listers narcissists, projecting their massive egos onto the world?   While that may be true, narcissists come in all shapes and sizes. They walk among us, some of them obvious, and some of them covert.   So […]

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    How to Know You’re Dealing with a Narcissist

    We all believe we know what narcissism looks like. After all, aren’t a majority of politicians and Hollywood A-listers narcissists, projecting their massive egos onto the world?

     

    While that may be true, narcissists come in all shapes and sizes. They walk among us, some of them obvious, and some of them covert.

     

    So how can you tell if you’re dealing with an actual narcissist or just someone who is a bit full of themself? Here are a handful of traits the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V) lists as characteristics that someone is a narcissist:

     

    A Grandiose Sense of Self-Importance

     

    Narcissists see themselves as incredibly essential to the success and happiness of other people. In their eyes, they believe they are capable of exceptionally high levels of achievement, whether they are or aren’t in reality.

     

    They are Special or Unique

     

    Narcissists believe they are so special and unique that few people can really understand them. Many will only want to spend time around high-status people.

     

    A Need for Admiration

     

    We all can admit it feels good to be appreciated and admired. But narcissists have an absolute need for admiration and a lot of it.

     

    A Sense of Entitlement

     

    Narcissists truly believe they are the exception to the rule. If there is a line of people waiting to be seated, a narcissist will cut that line because why should they of all people be forced to wait? If you’ve spent any amount of time around an actual narcissist, their entitlement can be shocking as it seems to know no bounds.

     

    A Lack of Empathy

     

    Narcissist simply cannot imagine how others feel. They are wired differently from non-narcissistic people. When you can’t empathize or feel what someone else is, it makes it incredibly easy to abuse those around you.

     

    These are just some of the main traits of a narcissist. Needless to say, spending any amount of time in their presence can be a very toxic and taxing experience.

     

     

    SOURCES:

     

    https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/14-signs-of-narcissism

     

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/202110/the-13-traits-narcissist

     

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder

    Filed Under: narcissist, relationships

    Cultivating Mindfulness in Daily Life

    February 23, 2024

    Have you heard about the concept of mindfulness? It involves being aware of the thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations that you’re experiencing at any given time (this is commonly referred to as “present moment awareness”). Practicing mindfulness offers numerous benefits, including:   Reduced stress, anxiety, and depression Increased sense of well-being Enhanced cognitive abilities Slowed […]

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    Cultivating Mindfulness in Daily Life

    Have you heard about the concept of mindfulness? It involves being aware of the thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations that you’re experiencing at any given time (this is commonly referred to as “present moment awareness”). Practicing mindfulness offers numerous benefits, including:

     

    • Reduced stress, anxiety, and depression
    • Increased sense of well-being
    • Enhanced cognitive abilities
    • Slowed brain aging
    • Lowered blood pressure
    • Improved sleep
    • Pain management
    • Improved quality of life for individuals with chronic conditions

     

    Practicing Mindfulness Every Day

     

    Many people meditate by focusing on their breath—pay attention to how it feels as you inhale and exhale, and whenever you notice that your mind has wandered, acknowledge the distraction as a passing thought and then refocus your attention on your breathing. When you first begin practicing mindfulness, you may be able to do this for only a few minutes, but your sessions will likely get longer over time.

     

    You can incorporate mindfulness techniques into your daily life by practicing present moment awareness when you’re:

     

    • Eating a meal
    • Taking a walk
    • Commuting to and from work
    • Coloring
    • Gardening
    • Showering
    • Lying in bed

     

    If you’re having trouble, you may want to consider downloading an app that will guide you through the meditation process. Or, set some alarms on your phone that will remind you to meditate at certain times throughout the day.

     

    Start Practicing Mindfulness

     

    If you’d like to know more about mindfulness techniques and the benefits of present-moment awareness, contact us today. We’ll be happy to schedule a therapy session at a date and time that works for you.

    Filed Under: mental health, mindfulness

    How to Tell When You’re Feeling Burned Out

    February 21, 2024

    Many people think of burnout as simply being incredibly tired after a long week or month of work or school studies. But burnout is much more than a physical exhaustion; it has in fact been called the “triad of depersonalization, emotional exhaustion, and feelings of detachment.”   Here are some additional signs of burnout:   […]

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    How to Tell When You’re Feeling Burned Out

    Many people think of burnout as simply being incredibly tired after a long week or month of work or school studies. But burnout is much more than a physical exhaustion; it has in fact been called the “triad of depersonalization, emotional exhaustion, and feelings of detachment.”

     

    Here are some additional signs of burnout:

     

    Pessimism

     

    Pessimism is a major red flag that someone is experiencing burnout. And they won’t just feel pessimistic about whatever it is that is causing them big stress (job, school, relationship), they will feel pessimistic about life and the world at large.

     

    Sleep Issues

     

    Burnout makes it incredibly hard to get a good night’s rest. Either a person finds it hard to fall asleep, lying there wide awake for hours, or they fall asleep but then wake up throughout the night. When we don’t get enough quality sleep, it makes it difficult to cope with stress, which makes it hard to sleep, and the vicious cycle continues.

     

    Sudden Physical Ailments

     

    A major sign of burnout is suddenly experiencing physical symptoms that you never have before. For instance, many of my clients, with no prior history of GI upset or headaches, will begin to have chronic issues.

     

    Is it Time to Speak with Someone?

     

    Burnout shouldn’t be taken lightly. You shouldn’t try to ‘tough it out’ and get on with things. Now is the time to make your mental health a priority. If you would like to speak with someone about what has been bothering you, please reach out to me.

     

    Sources:

     

    https://www.everydayhealth.com/burnout/unusual-signs-of-burnout/

     

    https://positivepsychology.com/burnout/

     

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/burnout

    Filed Under: mental health

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